Do you ever feel like men have become too “feminine”? Or that women today are too “masculine”?
And what if the issue isn’t actually “them”?
The energetic landscape has changed, especially in the West. Today, it’s completely normal to see men with dominant Yin energy and women with dominant Yang energy. That existed before, yes, but never this visibly, never this strongly.
And no, this isn’t a mistake. It’s part of our collective evolution.
Now, this next part is important.
If you’re a woman and you genuinely feel that men have become “too soft” or “too feminine,” it’s very possible that, right now, you’re carrying more Yang energy than actually supports you. Somewhere along the way, for reasons only your soul really understands, your energy field shifted toward more Yang than actually supports you right now.
And then something very natural happens.
You begin to connect with and feel attracted to men who have stronger Yin energy.
The same dynamic works the other way around.
So the point isn’t that men, as a group, have “lost their masculine energy.” And it’s not that women have “lost their feminine energy” either. That story keeps us on the surface.
What’s far more helpful is to look at what I call your primary point of attraction. That inner setting largely determines who you resonate with and who you naturally feel drawn to.
Times have changed. That’s just a fact.
New times call for a more conscious relationship with the energies we carry inside, along with the willingness to rebalance them when something feels off. Because the outer world is often just a mirror of what’s already active in our field.
One more thing…
There are still plenty of women with abundant Yin energy. And plenty of men with abundant Yang energy.
So the real question isn’t where they disappeared to. The real question is which quality of energy does your field RESPOND TO right now, and which one does it simply NOT REGISTER, without you even noticing it?
In Nestioo, we don’t work on changing who we attract. We work on gently reorganizing the field from which attraction happens.